Those in loss have a chance to be broken apart and start again. Never is there a more powerful chance of seeing the same world with new eyes. This is not a religious rebirth – a spiritual awakening maybe but not woo woo or new age or anything other than the whole new experience of deep joy in the smallest of events, people, places and things. A soul awakening perhaps more appropriate a term.

 

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Maybe for the first time in your existence you realise that no amount of money can bring back what you have lost and so you can start to see the benefit of what money CAN actually bring. Realising the true limitations of money draws you to other things that can help you to express joy that are simple and often cost little or nothing – simple acts of living that increase your gratitude for life…

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Happy comes in many forms and it is all relative to the user. My deepest joy since becoming a widow is without a doubt being free. Freedom is my ride. I decide who or what I get up for in the morning and when and why. You might say that as a single mother I am not free but the secret to that is that the kids ARE my freedom. Despite those “will you just shhhhhh”

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But are they what you think?

At times when we are lost our maps appear to have been drawn by an evil pirate to whom we owe a  spiraling debt and we are only just realising the joke is on us. The way seems rocky, treacherous and full of ingenious traps. Eventually we get to a point where we realise we need mechanisms to survive – we need to get savvy.

Over the past 20 months there are three main tools I’ve discovered that have enabled me to live my life in a way that not only makes sense but also allows me to be of service AND I find fun.

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Each of us are called to make commitments both minute and colossal throughout our time here. Some of us appear not to think of the consequences attached to our commitments and to the outside world may appear rash or even stupid. Some of us also let the fear of making a commitment prevent any commitment from taking place. A commitment you make of course, is also a decision – something you actively choose to follow through.

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Last year I focused my attention purely on intuitive services and free readings for everyone. This year after a good break, a house move and quite an amount of transitioning in my own personal sphere of mourning I have come to a place where I am ready to write again, share and connect – but this time with a specific audience in mind.

I am not just talking to fellow mourners, widows or those who have been bereaved by physical death –

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